A small update: Steffan is aware of this posting. He is upset that, presumably, one of you discovered him thanks to the “rate my boobs” app. His account has been deactivated. I would like to make it clear that I did not include any real damaging information that would have allowed me to doxx him.
Everyone feigning to know me or possessing any damaging knowledge about me is lying. I will not be moving in with any other guy, I will not be from South Carolina, and I will not be sleeping around.
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Hello Steffan Perhaps now is the time for you to pay attention.
It’s too late, if you’re thinking you can just rush home to stop me from leaving after I finish this. After packing everything into the car and driving off, this is what I’m sending you. Please don’t worry; I removed my name off the lease after speaking with our landlords. I have arranged for a direct deposit of the upcoming month’s rent. “Buddy,” you’re on your own after that.
You must be wondering why. You’ll probably behave as though you were totally taken by surprise, is I right? Since you’ve done nothing wrong at all and you’d make a fantastic husband and father, don’t you think?
Alright, “buddy,” let me to explain it to you in terms you can comprehend:
My spouse, who is 35 years old, and I have been together for about ten years, have been married for five years. Although everything appeared to be OK on paper, our marriage has not been at all. I’ve had enough, and I want to know if I’m the one at fault in this situation.
My MIL has been a nightmare from the start. From the beginning, everything revolved around her. She claimed that wearing white during our wedding was a “family tradition” (which it wasn’t). She’s always critiquing everything about me, even my appearance and cuisine. I’ll never forget the day she called me obese in front of everyone during a family get-together. What action did my spouse take? Nothing. Not a word to support me.
Afterwards, there is my spouse. It’s ridiculous that he constantly gives strangers relationship advise on Reddit, especially in light of the way he treats me. Rather than conversing with me, he spends more time on Reddit rating women’s breasts. in the true sense. And to let you know, the last pair he gave a rating of 10 out of 10 instead of a 4. Yes, he has plenty of time to accomplish that, but he doesn’t care to recall any details of my past. He has an impeccable recall for his work schedule and things that are essential to him, yet he will forget things like our anniversary, my birthday, and even basic things like what I’m working on or what’s important to me.
He is really mean when we argue and constantly ends his sentences with a sarcastic “buddy,” as if I’m some acquaintance that he can hardly stand. He also doesn’t clean. Everything falls on me, including the laundry, dishes, and the house. It appears that he views becoming an adult as optional as long as he has a job and a Reddit profile.
A few weeks ago, that became the last straw. We are expecting our first kid, a daughter, in five months. My mother-in-law began to say that since I’m “too soft,” she’ll have to “whip the girl into shape” and train her to be “tough.” My husband chuckled when I told him that I didn’t want his mother to have too much impact on our kid, especially given the way she treats me, and said that I was “overthinking it.” His mother “means well,” he said.
But my husband’s suggestion that his mother keep our kid while we work, during a conversation about future childcare arrangements, was the one that really destroyed me. He lost it when I informed him that I didn’t feel comfortable with that, especially in light of the way his mother treats me. He labeled me “paranoid” and told me to “get over it,” saying that whether I liked it or not, his mother would play a significant role in our daughter’s life.
This is the same woman who thinks it’s acceptable to use physical punishment. She has hit my husband’s nephew for the tiniest things, and nobody has intervened. They all seem to be members of some sort of cult, and I’m only now beginning to realize how real this whole thing is. How could I expect him to defend our child if he wouldn’t defend me? I began to worry about the kind of upbringing our kid would receive—a home where her own grandmother would make fun of or bully her, and where her father might do nothing to stop it.
Did I also mention that he didn’t show up for our initial ultrasound? His mom “needed” his assistance with something important. As it happened, it was only a Wi-Fi repair. WiFi He would rather that than our daughter’s first impression. That gave me all the information I required to understand my place in his life.
I packed things and moved on. I can no longer live this way. Oh, and I’ve already got in touch with a lawyer, in case you were wondering. I have all those texts, so you can’t intimidate me into cooperating anymore. You are fully aware of the ones I am referring to.So, Steffan, I wish you all the best in your future marriage—with your mother and the women of Reddit whose boobs you don’t even deserve.
Am I the bad person for divorcing my spouse after he mistreated me, allowed his mother abuse me, and instilled worry in me about the safety of our future child?
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