When it comes to talks, most individuals have a tendency to steer clear of certain topics. Most of us would probably agree that taxes and death are two topics that are better avoided rather than ones that tend to add much to conversations. Although contemplating one’s own demise can be unsettling, if you are facing a terminal illness, it is undoubtedly your top concern. Your entire life seems to alter the instant the doctor breaks the dreadful news, and facing it head-on is the best course of action. That’s what Moscow, Idaho resident Sonia Todd chose to do.
Sonia was informed that her cancer was terminal, and she realized that her remaining days were limited. Instead of spending the next few days worrying about the circumstance, she made the unusual decision to do something. Her own obituary, which she penned, goes beyond a simple list of her life’s accomplishments. It was full of fun and insightful counsel that many are finding motivating.
Regretfully, Sonia passed away from a fatal type of cancer at the age of 38. She wrote an obituary before she passed away, and her consoling words are amazing.
Since I never actually did anything noteworthy, let’s face it, I dislike the timeline format. I have not done much aside from being a mother to my two lovely sons, James and Jason, and marrying my kind, patient, and loving husband, Brian, and adopting Jesus Christ as my personal savior. None of which demand obit space, which I have to pay for.
I also didn’t want a group of my pals to sit around and write a wonderful report about me, since we all know that report would be full of lies, half-truths, improbable situations, and outright fish stories. Simply put, I dislike placing individuals in such circumstances.
“This is the truth, or my interpretation of it: I simply tried to do my best. I tried, and while I failed most of the time, I did succeed occasionally. In spite of my absurd remarks, jokes, and grievances, I genuinely loved people. The kind of sin that each of us committed is the single thing that sets me apart from everyone else. I didn’t always say or do the right thing, and those are the minor, insignificant things that harm other people that you truly regret when you’re dying.
There were a lot of ups and downs in my life, so it wasn’t flawless. I would completely erase the years between 16 and 20 from my life. Alright, between 14 and 22. That would probably take care of most of my 80s hair and wardrobe faux pas. However, I largely relished life. While some aspects of it were more difficult than others, I was only able to learn from every challenging circumstance.
Aside from the fact that there are advantages to dying young, I still owe money on my school loans, and it’s a joke that I’m not making the payments. In addition, I no longer have fear of the IRS, telemarketers, or serial killers. During election season, I don’t have to hide from the news or worry about wrinkles or the ozone layer.”
“Some people told me that writing my own obituary was morbid, but I believe it’s amazing because it gives me an opportunity to express my gratitude to everyone who supported me along my journey. People who helped me, supported me, laughed with me, and imparted knowledge so that I might lead a blissful, contented life. Knowing each and every one of you has been an immense blessing. That’s what gave my life meaning.
“If you would like to remember me and would like to do something for me, please do the following:
Write a letter to someone expressing how their influence has improved your life.
“If you smoke, give it up.”
“Stop drinking and driving.
“Switch off the electronics, take a child for ice cream, and have a conversation with them about their aspirations.”
“Pardon those who don’t deserve it.”
“Cease at all kid-run lemonade stands that boast about their concoctions.”
“If it is within your power to do so, make someone smile today,” was the final line of the obituary.
Possibly the saddest and most consoling thing we have read in a while is this. Learn from this courageous lady and face life’s challenges with integrity and dignity.
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