As a new mother, you work full-time. Finding the time and energy for anything else can be difficult given the continuous care and attention that our tiny bundle of joy needs.
I was shocked, therefore, when my husband asked that I keep up with half of our rent while I was on unpaid maternity leave.
We’ve always divided our spending equally, and I know how important being responsible with money is. But I can’t help but feel like my spouse doesn’t realize how much work I have to do in order to take care of our newborn.
It is not easy to be on unpaid maternity leave. It entails momentarily leaving my work to attend to our child’s requirements. Diaper changes, frequent feedings, and sleepless nights are all part of the days and nights. It’s emotionally and physically draining, leaving little time to consider working or getting a part-time job.
My spouse should think about paying my share of the rent for the time being, even though I fully want to start making financial contributions again as soon as I can. After all, I work hard to ensure our child’s wellbeing, even though doing so has a financial cost. It is evident that our family size has increased the financial challenges we face, from the strain on our budget to the extra costs of formula, diapers, and doctor’s visits.
I’ve talked to my spouse about my worries and reassured him that this is only a temporary situation and that I’ll look for part-time work as soon as I can. I proposed that he assume the burden of paying my portion of the rent in the interim. He claims he is already paying extra for our baby’s needs, but I can’t help but think he is neglecting the greater picture.
I think it’s critical for my spouse to understand the particular difficulties associated with taking an unpaid maternity leave as a supportive partner. Not only is the financial side a concern, but so is the toll it takes on my body and mind. My spouse would show that he appreciated and supported my role as the primary caretaker by paying the rent during this time.
So, is it incorrect of me to assume that my spouse will pay the entire rent while I’m on unpaid maternity leave? I don’t think so, given the situation and the heavy task I have as a new mother. We need to talk about this matter in an open and sincere manner in order to find a solution that honors the sacrifices and work I am making on behalf of our family.
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